Losing Your Virginity Together

You are both virgins. You love each other and want to have your first sexual experience together. And of course, you are both afraid of this important step in your life. Perhaps, that is why you are reading this article. Relax, as everything could be rather pleasant if you do everything properly.

The most important thing to bear in mind is that you and your girlfriend should feel comfortable both before and after sex. Think of contraception and methods of various diseases prevention in order not to worry about them at the most exciting moment. You shouldn’t think that because you are a virgin you couldn’t catch any sexually transmitted diseases. Dreadful diseases like AIDS can be transmitted through ways other than sex. So be careful.

We’re sure you have many questions. Below we will attempt to answer the most common questions about losing your virginity. Hopefully this information will prove useful and help calm your fears.

Should we do it in the morning or in the evening? It really depends on what you prefer. You can do it at sunrise, at sunset or in the middle of the day. The amount of time you are going to spend on your first time making love is much more important. It would be better if you spend the whole day in bed. You can even do it the whole weekend.

Should we eat or drink anything before sex? Yes, you can eat something but the food should be light otherwise you will feel sleepy. Do not have any alcohol. First of all, you want to be sober and not do anything foolish such as having unprotected sex. Secondly, alcohol makes the erection weaker.

Where should we do it? It is not so easy to choose a place for the first time you have sex. Usually people who decide to lose their virginity are quite young so they don’t have a place where they could be alone with each other for quite a long time. Your car or a forest isn’t good for the first time because these places are not very comfortable. Try to find a flat with a comfortable bed and bathroom so that you can take a shower together and get familiar with each other's bodies better before sex.

Tips for her

What should I do? You should not expect your boyfriend to know how to give you enjoyment (this is his first time, as well as yours). You must tell and show him what you like. Do not afraid of being active. Take his hands and show him the most sensitive parts of your body.

During his first time your partner can be rather nervous and his penis might not get hard after your caress so you should be very tender and patient. That is why you may need the whole day to make love for the first time.

Is it painful? You must have heard many terrible stories about severe pain girl’s experience when having their first sexual encounter. Perhaps, these girls' partners were not tender and careful enough. If you love your partner, if you want him to become your first man, if he caresses you like you wish then your muscles must relax enough to make penetration painless. So do not hurry. Also you can use a special lubricant to create less friction.

What position should I chose? If you are above your boyfriend you will be able to control the whole process. And vice versa, if he is above you then he will be able to do the motions he wants. So it is up to you which position to chose

Tips for him

What should I do if my penis doesn’t "obey" me? You’re unlikely to have an erection if you are too nervous. So try not to worry and caress your partner with your hands, tongue and lips. After some time you will be able to relax and get into the moment.

Should I tell her I am a virgin? Don’t be afraid of being honest with your partner. Part of being a man is the ability to admit your weak points. In the end it would be better if your partner knew what was causing your anxiety. She might be able to help alleviate your concerns by letting you know exactly what she wants which can help build your confidence.

Will we have simultaneous orgasms? Don’t worry about it. Girls normally don’t have orgasms the first time they have sex. Actually it takes them quite a long time to achieve orgasm. Achieving simultaneous orgasm requires a lot of practice. So the more often you have sex together the more chances you have to achieve simultaneous orgasm.

The size and shape of your penis isn’t really an important factor in your ability to be a skillful lover. Whatever the size of your penis is it will still reach the main nerve endings of her vagina. Moreover, the vagina itself can stretch and converge according to your penis. If you find that your penis is slightly crooked you shouldn’t worry about this because this is quite a normal phenomenon. A crooked penis is considered to be the most suitable for oral sex.

It might sound like a joke but if you can’t overcome your fear try having your first encounter with a sex doll. No one can become a good lover instantly. It requires plenty of time and practice. Your first time will probably be awkward but rest assured that it would be the beginning of many wonderful moments in your life.