Tantric Sex. Lessons and Exercises Part II

“Yelling Monkey that Embraces a Tree”

At this stage you can involve the genitals into the play. But don't forget about one of the main rules of Tantric sex: no hurry. This part of the play should take not less than half an hour and only in this case you will be able to achieve heights of ecstasy.

Put a plate with juicy fruit, for instance grapes, near the bed and every time you feel you are about to “explode” stop stimulation for a little rest. While having rest you can feed each other like the protagonists of Nine ½ weeks did. Though this is a Hollywood film, rather than an Indian soap opera, its scriptwriter seems to be familiar with Tantra.

So now you caress each other's genitals with hands and tongue trying not to orgasm too fast. What to women they greatly enjoy “Triangle” during this stage . What is this? In fact this is not love triangle that involves a husband, a lover and a unfaithful wife. This triangle implies simultaneous triple stimulation of the most sensitive female spots.

Bend your knees and lie with your legs apart so that your partner could penetrate your vagina with his forefinger and middle finger in order to search for the magic G-spot that has been recently found by Europeans (whereas wise Indians have been using it for giving incredible enjoyment to their beautiful women). The palm of the other hand he must put on t he must put on your belly and stimulate the “lingam” (or simply speaking the clitoris) with his fingers. Such “triangle” results in incredible orgasm.

Perhaps you wonder when you can enjoy penetration? Well, you can if you wish, but do that very slowly and gradually and do not forget about caress and kisses. The most appropriate position for the first time is missionary position. Lie and enjoy the feeling of getting closer and closer to the partner. Breath slowly and deeply and try to control penetration through vaginal muscle tension and relaxation. Tantra calls this process “ milking”, so it's not a surprise that caw is a sacred animal. According to Tantra, this practice must result in incredible orgasm that will be given to you by the Universe.

Theoretically there should be several sessions of tantric love. For the first time the male partner should not penetrate you deeper than for 1.5 inch. Next time he can get deeper. Only the sixth session implies fool penetration. The goal of such gradual penetration that you might consider a torture is to learn to control the process, to achieve the highest point of enjoyment and to stop on the edge of precipice. As you understand Tantr,a is not just sex, it is fusion of male and female energies.

In spite of common ideas the initiator of loveplay must be the woman. According to Tantra women posses an inexhaustible resource of stamina. Even orgasm does not deprive her of energy, whereas a man loses a part of his Yang with each ejaculation, that is why Tantra teaches you to delay the final chord that has so many beautiful names in Tantra “ Mystic bird flying over the ocean” “Dogs of the ninth day of the autumn” or even “Yelling monkey that embraces the tree”

Close up the Karma with the Kiss

The culmination of tantric love is simultaneous orgasm and the feeling of rejuvenation one for two. However, do not jump off the bed immediately, lie idle for at least ten minutes and try to remember this state.

Do you feel exhausted? This means that there as uncontrolled leakage of energy, that might be the result of too fast orgasm. Now karma of your partner must die.

Do not worry! You can help him! You must do the following: kiss and scratch (but not too enthusiastically) him following this direction: the head, forehead, eaves, ears and so on up to the feet. Scratch-kiss, scratch-kiss. In the end of this ritual you should do the same with his penis. Everything seems to be simple, but in fact you “close up” his energy field. Only you can open it so that he could experience true nirvana. Indian women were not only beautiful. They were wise.