10 Steps to Seduce a Girl

Everyone knows that men want to have sex with the pretty neighbor next door, co-worker or simply a random girl at the supermarket. But not many men know how to successfully pick up a woman. Here are some useful tips that will help your cause.

1. Care about the way you look

Honestly speaking, most women don’t want a man who is too into his fashion. A man who can tell the difference between an Armani and Lagerfeld suit probably has some issues that he needs to work out. Don’t go blowing all your money on fancy clothes. Dress appropriately but not over the top.

2. Smell clean

Women appreciate cleanliness. Be sure to shave, shower and invest in a nice smelling cologne, shower gel and aftershave. By the way, make sure you have a good foam bath and some few aromatic candles in your bathroom. You might need all these things later on.

3. Keep her interest

Keep her entertained and amused with stimulating conversation. Starting small talk with a woman isn’t as hard as many men think. The main thing is to speak about things the girl is interested in. Don’t talk about sports or your workout routine at the gym if she’s not into that. Keep the conversation flowing by allowing the woman to talk about her. Very few women pass on the chance to let you know what’s on their mind.

4. Create the right atmosphere

Assuming that you have successfully convinced your date to come back to your place make sure that the atmosphere is inviting. Your place should be clean, comfortable and romantic.

5. The right details

A lot of women don’t look at the big picture. They see their surroundings as an accumulation of big and little details. Some of the most important things to a woman are things that men would never even think of paying attention to. Collect the following items and your woman will be able to paint a very positive picture of who you are:

Fancy bottle or wine opener (women don’t want to be with a guy who still opens his beer with his teeth), a musical instrument (any type will do), something exotic (perhaps a wild animal skin)

6. The right food

Real gentlemen never make love to a hungry woman. Of course, nobody expects you to cook a four-course dinner but at the same time don’t expect her to eat an old bag of chips. Show her that you care about her by providing her with a nice meal.

7. The right drinks

You know that your night of love will be much more exciting if you offer your lady a little alcohol. Just remember these rules: red wine should be at room temperature, white wine should be cold and champagne must be ice-cold.

8. Coffee

Offer your guest a good cup of coffee, as that was likely part of the reason you asker her back to your place. Don’t go the cheap route with some instant coffee. Class it up with gourmet coffee perhaps with some nutmeg or cinnamon.

7. The right drinks

You know that your night of love will be much more exciting if you offer your lady a little alcohol. This task is very easy and pleasant for a gentleman. Just remember a few rules: red wine should not be of room temperature, white one should be cold and champagne must be ice-cold. Have a good time!

9. Don’t rush things along

You’ve finished your dinner, cocktail and coffee. She has listened to all of your foolish jokes and even tried to play whatever musical instrument you have at home. But this doesn’t mean it’s time to push things along just yet. When the time is right you will know it. Make sure that she is ready, willing and comfortable. Take it slow. Kiss her wrist then her ear. Touch her cheek with your lips, and go from there.

10. Take a bath together

Nothing sets the mood more than taking a romantic bath together.