Refresh your marriage sex

You have been married for many years, but you feel that your passion disappeared somewhere. Your sex life became quite rare, you feel bored and tired, you do not have any new sensation. Everything is well-trodden. May be all couples experience that ?

No, not all. Many married couples declare that after they went through such a crisis, they managed to refresh their marriage sex, to find new possibilities in it. How could they do it?

Here are some tips offered by famous sexologists, psychoterapists and simply experienced spauses.

1. Sex feelings

Experienced lovers compare sex with singers duet. Each of them can perform his own part and they can sing in unison. Their voices joined together acquire a better sounding than solo. In a good duet both singers feel the partner perfectly. So if one of them wants an improvisation than the other will easily tune.

Indeed, sex you have in your thirties is not the same as sex in youth. Everything is easier in youth: your blood is full of hormones, you can make love the whole night and after that have fresh complexion like a rose. You have plenty of wishes and plans, and you are as beautiful as Aphrodite.

With the increase of years you lose your beauty and self-confidence (especially if your beloved husband from time to time reminds you about your extra weight and wrinkles), you spend all your time and energy on family cares and your organism begs from you one more hour for sleep, rather than for sex.

But nevertheless, your sexual satisfaction first of all depends on your general satisfaction with your marriage. If spauses are pleased with their intimate relationship, than all other spheres of their relationship must be perfect.

What is to be done? First of all, you should be honest with yourself and answer the question: is everything OK in your everyday relationship? If not, than look for a cause that provoked the discord between you.

2 Give a treat to each other

A writer said "The least amount of our love falls to our beloved persons' lot" .

There is a paradox: we often blame our husband of all our troubles, express our dissatisfaction, pull him up in the presence of his friends and forget that he is the man of our life. But where is our tenderness? Spauses, who do not forget to express their tenderness and love towards each other as rule do not lose sex drive.

When did you bring him coffee in bed last? Does he bring you flowers? Do you walk in the evening by moonlight together?

Remember that the more often you make your partner feel you love him, the better sex you have!

3. Tired bodies have tired sex

Perhaps, almost every married woman from time to time does not know what to do when she is very tired and sleepy, but the husband is very eager to make love. If she denies him, than he is insulted, if she agrees to have sex, than she lies idle and wishes all the process stopped. A reverseced situation is also possible: she tries to turn him on, but he rejects all her attempts to begin lovemaking.

What is to be done? You should let each other have a rest.

Experienced couples know how to solve this problem. Some of them allow ask their children to visit their grandparents and disconnect the telephone. Others, who do not have to hurry to work make love in the morning. Another ones ,on the contrary send their children to bed and caress each other in the at night. Only those who do not love their partners find reasons to deny sex.

4. Leave all the problems outside

Do not bring your work problems home. Do not bring home papers you did not manage look through at work. If you still have many unsolved problems you worry about, than you should not have sex this evening, because your thoughts about things you did not manage to do will prevent you from being relaxed and will ruin all intimate atmosphere.

8. Do not make a girlfriend of your husband

This is the main rule of married life. Always bear in mind that you have a MAN near you and this man must be "conquered" every day.

But not all woman understand this. A wife stands before the mirror and informs his husband that she has put on twenty kilograms and become lika a “cow” and cannot fit in any skirt. Having come back from the dantists she says she has twenty holes in her teeth and they should begin saving money for a set of false ones. Or she discusses her intention to buy anticellulite cream. So she does everything she could not do in the beginning of their romance.

Such a woman's behaviour can be understood. When she complains to her husband she expects him to say "Oh, darling, you are so beautiful!". But husbands do not usually say this. They do not see any hints in our words. They believe us. If the wife says that she is old, fat, ugly and has cellulitis and caries, so this is true. What man would like to make love with such a woman?

8. Humor forever

Who said you sex is a serious thing? Sometimes the best way to bring love to your life back is to laugh.

Many women's magazines give such tips as to meet the husband at the door naked and having only an apron on. Sometimes men do not like this. Imagine, a man comes home hungry and tired and sees at the doorstep his wife naked and wearing an apron. He is very likely to be surprised, but angry. The only his wish is to have dinner and go to bed, but the wife wants to make love. This can be rather irritating.

But a woman made over this tip in her own way. She met her husband not just nfked and wearing an apron, she even put on rollers! Her husband was very surprised and laughed loudly. The night was wonderful. This woman's husband had sense of humor. If your husband has in either, than try it.

9. Flirt with your husband !

You certainly know that it is quite easy to flirt with an anknown man: to smile langourly, to look at him in such a way that he wants you and all this kind of stuff. It is much more difficult to flirt with your husband. But how to do it?

For example, while getting ready to go to cinema or for a walk, you can find a minute to tell him the scenary of your night. Or at a party you can look in his eyes and touch his leg with your one under the table ( usually sexy movie protagonists do so), or stroke his leg and then put your hand a little higher.

Do not lose the chance to dance. Pay compliments to him, laugh at his jokes, kiss his ear. The result will be astonighing.

You can also juice up your sex life by introducing different sex toys in it.

And remember that your passion has not disappeared. You can always revive it!