Information For Wives on the Charm of Novelty

As often as not, after some years of family life and marriage sex becomes synonymous with boredom. This happens even to loving husbands and wives. Every day they meet in the same bed and perform the same motions and tricks that used to be exciting before. It’s almost déjà vu.

Very often a couple's sex life becomes boring and monotonous because one or both of the partners don’t want to try something new. If you use only a few sex positions and nothing else it could be quite difficult to propose new things like oral sex or anus caressing or something else that is out of your repertoire. However, the routine is worth breaking. But don’t dive in all at once. Introduce some spicy novelties one at a time.

Do your fantasies fail you? Then here are some ideas for you to try.

Tongue caress

Begin by caressing your partner's lips. Then go down to the neck and shoulders, then to the breasts and arms. Do not miss an inch of skin. Stroke and bite him just a little.

After that start kissing his belly, gradually working your way down to his penis but don’t touch it! Only let him feel your hot breath. Then gently stroke his thighs and shanks getting down to the toes. Toes are very sensitive and there are people who can orgasm just through toe sucking.

When you see that the partner is burning with impatience go up and begin caressing his penis. Imagine it’s something tasty, something like ice cream or a banana. Enjoy stroking and sucking his manhood until he bursts into fantastic orgasm. If your husband is not selfish he will certainly repay your kindness by giving you oral pleasure.

Anal stimulation

Is his anus a taboo for you? This is part of your beloved man's body. Every time you have sex touch his anus and do the following trick. Gently touch his anus with your finger. Than make slight circular motions. He will go mad with enjoyment if you wet your finger or his anus with a gel. Special gels and creams are sold in sex shops. Then put the tip of your finger into his anus and continue circular motions inside. If everything is ok carefully go deeper. This is enough for some men but there are others who like when the woman gets even deeper with her finger. Some of them enjoy prostate massage. By the way, he can do the same. Many women enjoy simultaneous stimulation of the anus and clitoris.

His objections

What can you do if your partner refuses your caress? First of all, bear in mind that this is his right. However, a man who dislikes such delightful caress seems strange. Maybe he is afraid you will ask him to do the same? Though you think there is nothing bad about this he may be too fastidious to touch your genitals with his tongue or to put his fingers into your anus. Or he can be afraid you will do something wrong (for example, injure the inside of his anus). Let him know you will stop as soon as he asks you. Try to persuade him that you are going to be tender and careful.

Other novelties

Maybe oral and anal stimulation is not something new for you. Anyway, do not limit your fantasy. Try simultaneous masturbation without intercourse, or masturbation as foreplay, or some sex games. Try some sex toys, there are plenty of them: vibrators, dildos, butterflies, anal toys, etc.