Exciting marriage sex

Sex is a part of our everyday life. It is an entire universe that gives us countless numbers of unforgettable impressions. But it turns into something plain and boring when such phrases as "I am very tired", "I have a headache" become habitual. As often as not, after a few years of matrimony sex becomes so predictable, that the usual routine " take shower and make love" seems to be the only possible one. However, you really can change your life and make your sex relationships even more exciting than it had been you before you got married. This is not so easy but it is possible.

If you wish to bring passion and excitement back in your intimate relationship, you will have to apply your fantasy, get rid of all prejudices and shyness and not to be ashamed of trying something new. And you should know that passion reviving requires some patience and persistence. Even if you and your beloved husband understand each other without words, your desires, needs and temperaments are likely to differ. A phlegmatic, calm person cannot completely satisfy his or her hot and passionate sex partner. And a person who likes routine and tenderness cannot understand his partner who likes noisy parties and sex creativity . These are the causes of sexual discord between spauses.

There is no method to make two people's desires the same. There are conditions which help to achieve sexual harmony . First of all, you should speak with your partner about your wishes sincerely. You might be ashamed of speaking about it. But you easily discuss such topics as his dirty sock or the ways to save money, don't you? Often when we begin speaking about sex problems our tongue becomes awkward and all necessary words disappear somewhere. Nevertheless, you must be very tactful, otherwise such phrases as - "Why are you always turning away from me when I want caress?" or "Why did you finish so fast?" - will not result in anything but insult and irritation. You understand that this topic is rather delicate, so try not to offend each other. But this does not mean that you two persons loving each other should not discuss such delicate problems at all.

Sex makes many causes for mutual reproaches and insults, but it can reconcile spauses and draw them together. It can help to solve many marriage problems. Exactly in bed a husband and a wife realize the pettiness of the problems that were the causes of their quarrel.

But many couples complain about too predictable sex. You certainly have examined your partner's body completely, and you know exactly what his motions and words you can expect while making love. This makes your sex life boring. But try to vary your sex relationship, even if you are sure this is impossible. Do not restrain your desire, do not wait until a certain time comes and do not think that love can be made only in bed.

A woman complained about her husband. She did not like it that he often came from work and began kissing and undressing her in the kitchen where she was cooking dinner. She tried to bring him to reason, and said that they would "do it" after they had dinner, took shower and went to bed.

This picture is quite familiar to you, isn't it? But imagine what could happen if she did not deny her husband, made love on the kitchen table and felt like a love story protagonist. Occasional sex is so exciting and gives so many unusual sensations! However, be careful when bringing innovations in your sex life.

Chaste couples can stay in bed, kiss and embrace until sparks of passion turn into a real fire. Emancipated wives and husbands can be more creative. Make a romantic, unforgettable night. Curtain the windows, throw little pillows about the room, put a bottle of wine, fruit, chocolate near the bed. Burn the candles, listen to an erotic music, take together a bath with aromatic oil...

Sex in the bath tube is very delightful. Cover your bodies with soap or gel foam and stroke each other where you want. You should do it even in a small bath tube. Narrowness makes any touch even more arousing.

A few words about appearance. Hair-rolls and cucumber mask on your face do not make you sex appealing at all. But new underclothes, miniskirt and shoes with spikes really can make you sexy even for your husband who sees you every day. So while shopping you had better buy beautiful sexy underwear instead of one more sweater. Your husband will be pleased to see a charming underclothes and sexy stockings instead of usual tights on his fascinating wife. But again we remind you that you should avoid extremes. Otherwise you are likely to frighten your husband if you meet him at the door wearing supe rmini and 3 inches spikes and Indian's make up.

While making love imagine you are an obedient slave. Nothing makes men so aroused as conspicuous of superiority. If you pretend to be obedient and helpless, than your husband will have to take up the running. And you want him to be active, do not you?

If you are more daring, you can perform a striptease for your husband. Put on a beautiful underwear your husband has never seen, turn on music and say he can look at you without touching. This is very exciting.

Or suggest him to go to the country. Boating, bicycle riding in summer or wallowing in snow will increase your vital and sexual energy. And then laying on a puffy carpet with a glass of wine in your hand you will realize what exactly you need and new setting will fire your imagination.

Indeed, those couples are happy who during many years of marriage have never been bored in bed. And you really can have such relationship if you experiment, if you fulfill your sex fantasies. Only then your sex life will become exiting and only then you will experience plenty of unusual sensations. Your passion has not disappeared forever. It is just sleeping. You really can wake it up. Just make some efforts.