What Husbands Want

The protagonist of the well know movie “What Women Want” succeeded in his efforts to find the answer to this question. Do you remember what he did? He literally put himself in women’s shoes. However, besides the shoes he tried on a woman’s dress and tights, put on some lipstick and did other things men aren’t used to. By the way, according to psychologists this is absolutely the right strategy. While trying to understand another person we begin thinking like him and seeing things from his point of view.

So if you want to know what your husband wants, put on his jeans and shirt and begin to think like him. You will find your husband wants the following...

He wants you to caress him. If you think that men don’t need foreplay you are wrong. This is especially true for men forty years and older. He isn’t as passionate as he used to be 10 or 20 years ago. You have to make many efforts to make him ready for lovemaking. So stroke him, lick him, do everything to make him go mad with enjoyment.

However, during the first two or three minutes after orgasm a man's arousal declines. At this moment any sexual touching can be unpleasant.

Your husband wants you to love his penis. 95% of men worry about the size of their manhood. The fact is that men always carry out a comparative analysis. However, they usually compare their manhood with the manhood of men standing at the urinals next to them. Side views create an illusion that another man's penis is long and huge, whereas yours is small and short because you see it from above.

So any inattention or neglect towards his “treasure” hurts him. And of course he becomes very happy when listening to nice words concerning his manhood. That is why men take oral sex as proof of love.

Your husband wants to give you enjoyment. He really does. But the lack of knowledge, experience and sexual acumen sometimes prevents him from doing everything properly. What can be done? You should teach him how to satisfy you. Do not simulate orgasm in order to please your beloved husband. Do not be ashamed of speaking about your desires and feelings. Show him what he should do to make you happy.

Your husband wants to be the only man in your life. Nothing further needs to be said about that. There are few men who don’t mind sharing their wives with someone else.

Your husband wants regular sex. And he is right because the more practice the better the end result. Also, regular sex is the best precaution against male diseases such as prostatitis.

Your husband wants you to be active. Oh, this is a secret dream of 99.9% of men. Men wish to be at the mercy of a woman, to be weak and dependent. They are very tired of being strong, of making important decisions, of being conquerors. So give him a chance to relax by breaking the usual stereotype. Take a whip and make him your slave. This will help you both get rid of any negative emotions. This works better than any antidepressant drug.

There are at least three contradictions in the world of men's wishes. On the one hand a man wants to be (or to seem) a great lover. On the other hand, his sexual abilities might prevent him from being perfect in bed. So appreciate your husband, show him your feelings. Prove to him that you don’t want another lover!

On the one hand your husband wants you to be a little dissolute, he wants you to perform miracles in bed. On the other hand, your husband wants you to be a modest and respectable matron. So you should forget all of your duties as a housewife in the bedroom and should not forget your rights of a lover in the kitchen.

On the one hand, your husband always wants something new and spicy, something making him want you again and again. On the other hand he gets tired of new sensations and wants stability. Sometimes it's better to hide all sex-toys in your secret box. Alternate periods of sex experiments with periods of lull.

Every man is unique and your husband is no exception. Certainly, he may desire things that you never thought about. An intimate talk will help you learn all of his secrets. But don’t be too persistent. If you want your husband to be sincere with you disclose your secrets first.