First Date Sex (Part I)

There are many eternal questions that still remain without answer, though the answer is being searched for ages. One of these questions is this one: “Should I have sex on the first date or should I wait for some time?”.

Usually women worry about this issue. To be precise mostly they worry about the partner's attitude towards this situation. Usually this question “Is this the right moment for first sex?” occurs in two situations: before sex , when a woman worries whether the romance will continue after it and after sex, if it happened too soon.

The issue is topical but there is no exact answer to the questions “When should we start having sex?” and “Can I have sex on the first date without any damage to my image”?. Men do differ in their attitudes towards sex and relationships, as well as in many other issues.

While carrying out polls and examining articles on “fast sex” I revealed a few definite tendencies. I must say that all these tendencies are quite encouraging.

Tendency N1.

There is no common men's opinion on women who agree to sex on the first date. Only one percent expressed negative attitude towards woman with whom they had sex on the day they met her.

Tendency N2.

Decency is still in fashion, but too enthusiastic demonstration of chastity often arouses bewilderment rather than approval. A man is likely to think: is she pretending or is this her natural behavior? Does not she have other good qualities to attract men with besides this seeming inapplicability?

The supposition “If it happens too soon he will consider me to be easy in morals” is no more than a myth. Most men (unfortunately not all of them) are not likely to come to such a conclusion. At least this has been proven by polls: 70 percent of men do not consider sex on the first date to be immoral.

In the overwhelming majority of cases disapproval of a woman who dared get in the bed with a man after a few dates is caused by lack of self-confidence. Self-confident men with independent thinking consider such behavior as a proof of mutual attraction.

Tendency N3.

This is dispelling of one more myth, rather than a tendency. The statement “A man is a hunter. Easy meat makes him disappointed” has lost its actuality. Many men consider sex to be a part of communication, a one more way to know more about each other.

If sex was the only his goal, than, of course, it might happen so that he will lose interest after the first night with you. Here the number of dates before the first sex does not matter. The one for whom sex was not the main purpose of communication will not consider sex on the first date to be a reason for condemnation and giving you up.

What to men for whom seduction of girls is something like hobby, such men disappear sooner or later, no matter whether sex was on the first date or 3 years after you met each other. You got in his list of lovers and he does not want to waste time. He must find another girl so that to manage to seduce as many girls as possible while he can do that. Is there any use regretting about sex with such a collectioner? This night (or half an hour) is your new experience, and any experience is useful, especially if you got satisfaction.

To be continued