FAQ about Her Orgasm

The female orgasm is quite a natural thing but there are many mysteries surrounding it. Unlike men, who orgasm almost every time they have sex, women differ in thee way they achieve their desired enjoyment. Some women don’t orgasm at all.  No matter what they do, like prolonging intercourse, rarely have sex, masturbate with various sex toys (bullet vibrators, silicone dildos and so on) all their efforts are in vain.

At the same time there are women who need only to be touched slightly to cum. Just like men, women differ in what excites them. However, there are some common features that all women share.

Can every woman can experience orgasm?

All women have the same physiology however their bodies don’t all respond the same way to the same stimulation.  About 5% of women have never had an orgasm in their life.

Among the 95% of women who have experienced an orgasm in their life only about 40% say that they orgasm regularly. Others have it very rarely or even have had it once or twice but that was through the excitement of using a sex toy or having sex in a public place.

What does a woman feel when experiencing orgasm?

A woman’s orgasm is know to be much more intense than a man’s. All women describe their orgasms differently.  Some women experience increasing warmth, others define their orgasm as involuntary contractions of the vaginal muscles.

Some women experience a wave of convulsions that run from their head to their toes. You can see that sensations are quite different from woman to woman.

How can a man tell if his woman has an orgasm?

An orgasm can be subtle or it can be very strong. The way an orgasm feels and looks like depends on the woman you are with. There are some signs to look for but they aren’t clear to the naked eye.  

Signs that your woman is having an orgasm includes quick breathing or holding the breath, convulsive motions, vaginal muscle contraction (these contractions can be easily felt by inserting a finger in the vagina), various sounds or biting of some objects - your hand, a pillow, and so on. Sometimes the orgasm is so weak that it is almost impossible to see or to feel.

How long does female orgasm last?

It lasts approximately as long as the male orgasm, 4-6 seconds. Again, it depends on the woman. A woman can have a long lasting orgasm (from a few seconds up to a few minutes).

What is the difference between multiple orgasm and repeated orgasm?

Unlike men, women can experience multiple orgasms. Multiple orgasms imply a series of orgasms one coming after another with almost no pause. Repeated orgasm even if occurring after a very short amount of time implies going through all stages - increasing arousal and then orgasm.

Do all women can experience multiple orgasm?

No. About 30% of women can experience multiple orgasms.

How much time does a woman need to orgasm?

As we have said before women and their ways to orgasm differ. Most women need about 15-30 minutes to achieve the desired enjoyment of an orgasm. This means that a woman needs more time than a man to cum. Men should take this fact into account.

What should a woman do to achieve orgasm?

We have already mentioned that not all women can experience orgasm. What’s more, some of them have quite serious difficulties with achieving the desired pleasure. Usually the inability to orgasm means that a woman doesn’t know what kind of stimulation she needs and therefore she can’t let her partner know what he should do in order to give her any enjoyment. In this case sexologists recommend women masturbate because only then can a woman learn more about her sexual identity.

Using sex toys provides pleasurable masturbation, especially if these sex toys resemble the male penis. Usually these are vibrators and dildos. Before buying a sex toy and in particular a dildo, a woman should find out what material this dildo is made of in order to prevent any type of allergy. If a woman does not know what materials might cause her allergies her best choice would be a silicone dildo.

Why a silicone dildo?

A silicone dildo won’t cause an allergic reaction. Second, silicone dildos have a nice look and feel and lastly, they are non-porous and can be easily cleaned.

Another advantage of silicone dildos are that they can get hot or cold rather quickly. You can choose the right temperature for you. Buy a silicone dildo and experiment with it.