How to use dildo

Though all dildos are different, you can make use of following tips as a universal tool for dildo usage.

First of all...

Before you are going to test your sex toy on your body, take care of thorough lubrication. It's a good thing to do even if you think you'll be "wet" enough. Extra lube won't be too much, as many dildos tend to absorb moisture. With a good lube you will feel more confident and safe.

For women

External stimulation

Women know, that the excitement, which can produce clitoris stimulation is very strong. You may try dildo on other parts of your body, running it from the breasts to thighs and providing the necessary arousal. When you'll get used to dildo feeling, go on to the clitoral zone. It's up to you to choose a technique on giving pleasure to your clitoris. Some women prefer to rub a dildo onto the underwear and teasing it until they get the feeling. Others prefer more direct stimulation: it can be either side of the hood or just the tip of clitoris. The way you are going to stimulate clitoris is your individual preference. You may vary speed and intensity of pressure with your dildo, use the head or slide it at the full length. Sensations, which are going to appear, will be the best prompter.

Internal stimulation

First of all make yourself comfortable for penetration. You may lie back as in missionary position or adjust it to the chair or other parts, if you have an attachable dildo, making sure you are ready for insertion. When you want to make it slowly, try to make shallow motions with the head gradually increasing the depth and intensity of thrusting. You decide what motions will be the best for you, as the dildo is all in your hands. Don't forget about G-spot, this intricate zone is very sensitive and a G-spot dildo will do the stimulation the right way.

For men

Dildo makes a great job for men, massaging their prostate and making it actually a very pleasant procedure. Prostate is situated about three inches in the anus and feels like a small lump. Stimulation can be done simply by moving dildo in-out and pressing it towards perineum. Don't forget that lubrication should be applied abundantly, when you insert a dildo into the anus. You may even add to excitement if you stimulate penis at the same time.

For couples

All above tips can be adapted to the dildo use by you and your partner. One of the best advices is to talk with your partner about your desires as dildo does not have nerve endings to convey your sensations to the full. Don't feel confused about asking and delicately prompting him what will be the best for you. This will coordinate his movements and bring you utmost pleasure. You may stroke and thrust various zones (anus and vagina, vagina and clitoris, anus and penis etc) gradually or simultaneously. A double-ended dildo makes both partners stimulation possible and versatile. Just expand your fantasies and sex will become unforgettable for each of you.