Cunnilingus

Nothing is indecent when a couple of lovers are trying to stimulate each other and both like what they are doing.

If you would like to please your woman, cunnilingus can be one of the most wonderful things you can do for her. Some women prefer it to intercourse because it is the easiest way to orgasm. 33% of women never or seldom achieve orgasm during the intercourse and for these women cunnilingus may be a way for achieving orgasm with a partner.

Some women are shy to show their intimate region to say nothing of the smell and taste that most women consider disgusting but men on the contrary, find stimulating. In fact, the vagina and vulva are constantly cleansing themselves. It prevents from infection. If there is no moistening the vulva is unhealthy. A moist vulva with its own aroma is a healthy one. There are times when the vulva may smell or taste unpleasant. It's not difficult to get rid of. A shower or a bath should take care of any unpleasant odor. If a woman feels her genitals have a constant unpleasant "fish" smell she should go to the doctor. It may be an infection.

There is almost nothing you can do during cunnilingus that will be bad except biting or scratching. If your woman is not a masochist, please don't hurt her. So you can try anything you like but try it gently watching her reaction. Tongue tip, blade or underside can be used, as well as the nose, lips and teeth (but be careful). Any licking and sucking of the labia, vaginal entrance, clitoris, or anal area would make your partner feel great. Motions can be slow or fast, regular or erratic, firm or soft depending on the moment.

Tastes differ. Of course it depends on a woman and the sensitivity of her vulva and clitoris the type of stimulation she likes. A woman with well-developed inner labia may like to have them sucked on. You may try licking her from vaginal entrance up to her clit and down and vice versa. Or spread her outer vaginal lips with your fingers. With your tongue gently roam around her clitoris then come back to it, as it is the most sensitive.

If a woman has a well-developed clitoris, her partner will be able to suck on it like a small penis. If a woman has a small or hidden clitoris, her partner may only be able to lick it. Keep up your rhythm and intensity once you start bringing her close to orgasm. Nothing could be worse than breaking the rhythms when she is close to climax.

Involve your imagination. It's always the best key. Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet on her genitals. This works surprisingly well as your tongue is always moving in different directions. Learn her favorite letters and write her love-letters.

Some women prefer that the tongue be inserted into the vagina stimulating the vaginal walls. The most sensitive region is close to the entrance so you needn't insert your tongue too far. Try moving your tongue in and out, as well as in circles around the inside of the entrance. Some like inserting the fingers into the vagina while sucking the clitoris. Some enjoy massage of the anus with well-lubricated fingers or dildos and vibrators. As a matter of fact there are plenty of sex toys that may be used during oral stimulation. Try any of them and enjoy.

Many couples choose the "69" position where both partners are orally stimulating each other lying head to toes either on their sides (the woman has to keep her leg raised for the period of time of cunnilingus) or one on the other (that is more comfortable).

Cunnilingus is a learned skill. Try new things and let your imagination work for you.