Cunilingus. 10 rules for men

It is quite strange that almost all sexologists begin their articles about cunilingus with attempts to convince sexually mature men that oral sex is not something shameful, but on the contrary shows a man's generosity. However, we are not going to persuade men to enjoy women by this pleasant action, like old nurses try to talk a little baby into having tasty poridge. No, we are going to discuss only cunilingus technigue details. If you want to make your woman go mad with enjoyment with help of your tongue and fingers, than you need some knowledge that guarantees you a great success with women. Especially with those 30 per cent of them who, according to the statistics, cannot achieve orgasm in another way.

1.Make your partner ready for cunilingus

The first obstacle that can embarass a beginner is the very object of the action he is going to perform on. These are the very female genitals. What can he do, if getting closer to the mentioned object seems to him as tempting as a necessity to perform artificial respiration on a dying brown bear.

If your main obstacle is body hair, than delicately try to suggest to your partner to get rid of it. At least partially. Or just take her to the bathroom and render her hairdressing services on your own. Let her take this for a part of loveplay.

There is one more thing that many men consider to be a serious obstacle to fulfilling intimate women's wishes. This is fear of an unpleasant smell. Generally speaking, female intimate scent is supposed to turn a man on. If you do not consider your woman's smell pleasant, than there is something wrong either with her or with you. If your partner takes shower before making love with you and goes to women's doctor regularly, than she cannot smell badly. Perhaps the matter is that you do not love her, because a beloved woman's smell cannot be disgustful. If you do not like her smell, than this is the sign that soon you will be irritated by her manner of sleeping, driving car, singing, smiling, etc. Think about it. May be you had better give her up right now.

2.Give up old habbits

For some reason most men think that cunilingus technique implies furious tongue motions. Dear sirs, do not trouble! Your diligence is not going to give to your partner any pleasant sensations. If your woman is groaning and is trying to clutch your hair, this does not necessarily mean she is "overhelmed by wave of bliss". This might mean that your motions are painful, but your poor woman is ashamed of letting you know you are doing something wrong.

First of all, stop biting. Secondly, no one asks you to imitale a hamster despairingly licking his friend's death-wound. Your tongue's touches must be slight, especially at the beginnig. By the way, you should not stubbornly try to feel with your tongue for clitoris. And when you feel for it, do not stick to it like you must be given a medal just for the fact you know where this thing is. It is not necessary to remind that clitoris is very sensitive, and its too strong stimulation can be rather unpleasant. So do not focus only on it. Caress the area surrounding it as well.

3. Find out what her favourite cunilingus position is

It can surprise you a lot, but it is quite possible that your partner did not graduate from circus school, so some acrobatics exercise you are trying to impose on her may be quite difficult to perform. Possibly, she cannot stretch out, so when you try to apart her legs widely, do not think she must be delighted with your manipulations.

4. Three types of tongue motions

If during your sexual life you learned only to loll out your tongue like in a otolarynghologist office, to make circular motions with it and to push this object in vagina, than you have nothing to be proud of. Most women stand these motions only because of their politeness. Try something new. Here are some know-how.

1. Loll your tongue in such a way that its surface is absolutely flat. Than move your head up and down in such a manner like you sarcastically nod and say "Yes, mam...". The essence of the trick is to touch clitoris and area surrounding it with the whole tongue's surface.
2.Relax your tongue completely. Than lick the area between vulvar lips. Bear in mind, the slowlier you do this, the more pleasant sensations she has.
3.And again we remaind you that you should not stick to clitoris. Grasp with your lips the skin surrounding it, without penetrating with the tongue inside. Her orgasm is guaranteed.

5.Fantasize!

It is known that women feel men's mood very well. If being between her legs you are nervously thinking about something like "I am torturing for an hour already, but she is not going to come!", than be sure she understands what is happening to you. So if you are tired or bored, than begin thinking about something sexy. Otherwise, she is going neither to orgasm, nor to have sex with you any longer.

Try to imagine something arousing, for example a handcuffed sexy movie star or your boss wearing open-work stockings. Do not be afraid to seem a sex deviant. You are just trying to satisfy your beloved woman.

6. Deep drilling

There is a mistake characteristic of all men. For some reason nearly all of them think they should push the tongue in female genitals as deep as possible. Actually, some ladies enjoy this trick, but others (most of them) simply do not feel anything, and another ones even hate it.

How can you define whether your woman is going to like it if you put your tongue in her vagina? Everything is very simple. Just ask her about this. Even if you prefer pretending to be deaf-and-dumb, you should cope with your shyness. This will help you to avoid wasted labour and foolish misunderstanding in future.

7. Use your fingers

French people justly state that a man is not an impotent if he has just a single finger. The most important thing is to use your finger properly. First of all, learn to use your tongue and fingers simultaneously. Find out what tongue motions your partner likes most and simultaneously touch her genitals with your fingers. It does no matter what exactly you do with the fingers if a) your fingers are wet enough, b) you do everything gently and slowly

8. Individual attention

Cunilingus like any other type of sex is not only technique. Emotions are very important for any woman. So even if your sex partner is an occasional one, let her know you appreciate her personality. Try to find out her sex preferences. Some women like it when the partner gently prinches her belly and tigh while performing cunilingus, others adore listening to vulgar words. The most important thing is not to confuse different women's preferences.

9. Make her orgasm

We mean real climax, rather than a perfomance "stanning multiple orgasm" with prologue and epilogue. Even if the protagonist is a very talented actress. There are two reliable methods to make your partner orgasm.

First of all, maintain a stable rhythm of tongue's motions. The partner will be glad to help you find the area you should focus on. Do not be ashamed of asking her to teach you.

And secondly, do everything slowly, do not hurry. Even if you feel her arousal is getting stronger and stronger, do not make motions quicker. Make some pauses. So do everything like your single purpose is to prevent her orgasm. Be patient and wait until you feel she is on the edge. Than let her enjoy enormous enjoyment. She deserved it.

10. Let her rest!

Yes! You did it! You managed to make her orgasm! Even if you are very proud of yourself, let your partner enjoy her sensations completely. Do not try to involve her in a friendly talk, just embrace her and relax. When she comes to herself, you can ask her politely whether she would like to have sex. But please, be really polite and do not say something like "OK, now it is my turn!". Even if your efforts were not disinterested, do not show this. If you are patient and restrained enough, than you will get what you deserve.