How to use anal toys

Sex with anal toy may seem a bit scaring as you may feel not quite used to idea. While, if you decide to take the advantage of it, you may experience a variety of sensations.

Relaxation

To make sexual experience with your anal sex toy an enjoyable activity, you will need to make yourself most comfortable. You should keep in mind that anus is not as elastic as vaginal zone for example. You may choose from your favorite relaxation methods from taking a hot bath to physical exercises. Try to relax anal muscles with your finger, this may help to get used to the feeling.

Safety

Condom is a reasonable thing when you use anal toys. Check your anal beads for safe attachment to a cord, so it won't get broken inside your rectum. Use only quality sex toys and avoid inserting toys if you noticed rough or sharp places, it can do considerable harm to your health.

Lubrication

It's probably the most essential part of play with your anal toy. Anal area doesn't produce its own lubrication, and if you want to prevent yourself form unpleasant feelings, use a good lube and better a lot of it.

Anal toy's choice

It's all up to you to choose the toy that will suit your desires. But if you are a newcomer, its better to choose something that is not very big. Consider a sex toy which is rather soft, flexible with flared base and non-porous surface. Think over silicone small butt plug for primary penetration. They are also good choice if you like to experience a fullness feeling. If you are going to set the anal play with your partner, you can try a harness anal dildo to free your partner's hands for stimulation of other parts of the body.

Positions for penetration with anal toys

"Doggie style" may be the most familiar to most people. Still this may be not so suitable for first try. This makes penetration deeper which is not the primary thing to do for first anal experience. We would recommend a missionary position, where your partner lies on the back with his knees lifted-up, which exposes the anus and rectum for better penetration with a toy. In this position you may choose the best angle for penetration. Other position to try is a “spooning” position, with partners lying behind each other at one side. It helps to control thrusting and reaction of your partner. You may vary positions until you find the best that suits you.

Communication

Communication is a key for all sexual interactions. Talk out your feelings and opinions and be receptive to your partner. If he feels discomfort or doubts, you may always try anal exploration another day. Next time can be just fantastic!